Condoms should be stored in a private place and out of reach of children. But not infrequently the little ones can find where the parents keep contraceptive devices. Then how to explain it?
Most of the children may not know what a condom, but if by accident he found such a device at home or in a store, it will be curious.
Dr Andrew Wanananda MS in sexology consultation on detikHealth said, the mother or parent should focus on the 'appropriateness' of information that can be received by the child according to age. And must be agile in responding to the question of children who were surprised to see an object similar to the one in her closet.
If the child is not proper or appropriate to explain clearly the function of the condom as sperm receptacle to be placed in the penis, then it need not be described in detail. Like a teacher who declined to elaborate on pure physics to students who do not know what it is mathematics.
"If sex education in the family right, can be assisted with the child but asked to be neutral, ie 'You know what this deck?'. If she thought balloon, explaining that this is the balloon to let adults do not have a sister anymore," explains psychologist Ruth Ibrahim, President of Personal Growth detikHealth when contacted.
Most of the children may not know what a condom, but if by accident he found such a device at home or in a store, it will be curious.
Dr Andrew Wanananda MS in sexology consultation on detikHealth said, the mother or parent should focus on the 'appropriateness' of information that can be received by the child according to age. And must be agile in responding to the question of children who were surprised to see an object similar to the one in her closet.
If the child is not proper or appropriate to explain clearly the function of the condom as sperm receptacle to be placed in the penis, then it need not be described in detail. Like a teacher who declined to elaborate on pure physics to students who do not know what it is mathematics.
"If sex education in the family right, can be assisted with the child but asked to be neutral, ie 'You know what this deck?'. If she thought balloon, explaining that this is the balloon to let adults do not have a sister anymore," explains psychologist Ruth Ibrahim, President of Personal Growth detikHealth when contacted.
Parents should not lie to children to explain something that is wrong about condoms or even scold who makes children more curious about themselves and trying to find out from friends or the internet. But stay calm in giving explanations.
Parents just simply say what the function of condoms within the capacity of the child or his age, in this case does not need to explain in detail about condoms.
Parents try to give an explanation of condoms to children when they do have free time, so that parents can explain it very well. When describing parents should act as a conduit of information and not interrogate.
"Keep condoms should also be in parents' room. In drug utensils in the room, dresser or wardrobe mother. Do not indiscriminate," said Ruth.
In addition to careful when storing condoms, parents also need to be careful when disposing of the condom, so do not play by the children played.
Used a condom should be disposed or wrapped in plastic and dispose of tissue in the trash. To avoid problems with water pipes, do not flush it down the toilet.
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